monotony

do you ever feel the monotony of daily life? i try to find the wonder and amazement yet at times i feel the daily grind is grinding on my nerves. like why do i have to stop at red lights? i understand their purpose and i respect that but at times i don't want to be slowed down. also for example why doesn't the Brita refill itself so i can enjoy clean water and why doesn't the toilet paper roll holder go get another one when its empty? this is the kind of monotony i am talking about. ahh but so it is. i have yet to manifest away around these things into my reality... any hints?!?